I can tell how much adversity someone’s faced
By how good of a lover they are.
The straight white male who grew up
with the white picket fence and mom and dad
and high school sports is always the worst
Not because he doesn’t care,
but just because nobody has ever taught him how
He goes through life thinking he’s the best
He’s making you cum
He’s not
It’s up to us to speak up
The straight white male who grew up poor,
single mom, dad died young, had to grow up fast
to care for his mom whose slew of boyfriends walked through the door
each getting more abusive than the last
He’s an attentive and caring lover
He knows what a woman is
He knows how to take care of her
He makes you cum
Every time
He doesn’t even know he’s good at it
All he knows is it’s part of his job.
The older middle eastern man
who grew up rich in his country
He fucks like he’s the king
He expects you to please him
It’s never crossed his mind
that a woman would want pleasure too
She exists to make him cum
and be both the dirty whore
and the devoted and faithful servant
Both the slut and the saint
She must bend with his fantasies
And she can’t tell him what she wants
Unless he demands it from her.
The Colombian fucks like an adventure
He knows how to enjoy life
He doesn’t make you cum
He tries
Oh believe me, he tries
He fucks all night long
You don’t have the heart to tell him
That while it’s been great fun
The pounding
The changing of positions
The fuck from the couch to the floor to the desk to the kitchen sink to the fridge to the table to the bed
Has been fun…really fun
But it won’t make you cum.
You need the soft
And the slow
To open up
And make you
scream.